Jbird#2 Separated Living Together Need Advice

[Jbird]

I'm going to get a 2 x 4 from you all today. I maybe to honest for for this world, but here goes another truth. My GAL plans fell through, SND20 was extremely upset with her mother and STBX pushed a lot of buttons today.

STBX had to remind SND20 she was moving to MT in April and then asked her to move with her the minute she got home from Dallas. After SND20 got so upset about her mother abandoning her, I confronted STBX about her plans to meet up with the convict when he gets out of prison, I told her I knew about the letters and their plans, I knew she put money on his calling account and I pulled up his court records. I said "I'm showing you this for your wellbeing, he has a dozen felonies, most are beating his ex wife, theft, drugs etc! Now that I've told you, you are not naive to the kind of man he is, so if you're still interested in him, you can have each other."

I know this is not good DBing in most cases, but I feel better that if she didn't know, now she does. I feel stronger for standing up to her about what she is doing to SND20. I hope it lasts, I feel more detached now than I have been! I told her, if you want to go, then go. She can move tonight I don't want to be around her in this insane state of mind!

I don't even care it was Valentines Day, I would rather be alone than deal with anymore crazy! BTW, SND20 turned her down with an imfatic "NO Way am I moving with you!"

Jbird