Happy VD, all! I've been out all day and finally made it home.
1) Because it's VD, I understand this question today. 2) Yes, I remember lots of good times where things clicked. I also remember times when they didn't. 3) It's sometimes easier to dwell on the yucky when you're where you are emotionally. That's ok. 4) I was really content remembering the less than lovely. Then one day my oldest dragged out family movies. I saw for myself that we had happy years.
That being said, they're snapshots in time. We wouldn't have loved them if there hadn't been love. Don't do what they do and rewrite the past.
Tomorrow is a new day. You can create great moments on your own. Isn't hat empowering?
You're loved folks. Just ask those who are there for you every day.
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."