W took D14 and her friend to the mall to get out of the house. She asked me if I wanted to go but I declined and told her that I had some other things to do.

I think I will open this mornings conversation up again because I don't feel like it was finished.

I am going to get right to the point:

"I am hearing from you that you want to test me to see if we can act normally together and then work on our marriage. I assure you that I can try this but not until there is only two of us. Until then there is no normal for us."

Does this seem too weak? or controlling?


Me-45 W-44
S21, S18, D15
T-27, M-21
BD Jan 2014
PA revealed March 2014
In-house separation - April 2015
I filed - Aug 2015
She moved out Oct 2015