How to start rebuilding? - 2

[Hoju]

No they aren't evil and I'm sure all WAS have no intentions of hurting the LBS. They do it because they are unhappy, feel trapped and see it as there only way to happiness. While I'm sure others make the decision to leave much easier for the WAS, as they offer comfort and support, it is our own actions that more often then not cause our sposes to stray.

I haven't posted in several weeks as my sitch is over but I'm hurting today. Probably because of valentines day and the thought that she is happy with someone else. I know it shouldn't bother me and it's petty, but if i'm alone and hurting, she should be too... at least for now.

Jim, i'm doing ok personally. In the best shape of my life, still doing a ton of activities, work is going great. I feel like the best person I have ever been and I wish W cared enough to look and see .

I hope everyone is having a very nice Valentines withwhat ever they may be up to today.