Agree with everyone here. Do not send. the only person it will have an effect on is you when she gives you no response or a negative one thereby making you feel worse than ou do now.
You read that article I talked about yesterday where the wayward said nicing him or trying to talk him out of an affair was futile. Its wasted energy. Spend that energy on you and d6
I know it's hard.


Me:40 W:35
D:8
T:13 M:10
WAW: 7/14
PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months
Moved out and moved on