Don't snoop, and don't believe the W. The MLCers area devious bunch. They will say some truths, perhaps even offer it, but they WILL LIE and HIDE facts from you. DETACH, this way you will not give a rat's A$$ and it is highly liberating. Snooping and making inquiries just drive you crazy. I know, believe me I do... Even if you snoop and find nothing, that will not prove anything. Just trust me, you don't want to know...