So I am divorced.

[mahhhty]

I hope all are dealing with V Day in their own way, but dealing with it in a fun way (if possible). I got two munchkins that are going to dress up (shirt & tie for one, and the other a dress) and we are going out to dinner for V Day, for the start of the impending blizzard.

I had an interesting conversation with a buddy and his significant this AM. They talked about the STBX's family posting things on Facebook. Upbeat posts about love and family and kids, etc. They asked me if it bothered me, and honestly, I hadn't paid attention to it... so No it doesn't bother me. They asked if I knew if it bothered STBX. I have no idea. It is her family, so obviously at this time and place I can't comment about it to her. But I would think that in such a hard time for their daughter/sister they would back off on posting how great their loves are and how wonderful their life is. I view it almost as them adding stress and pressure while she is already down. Definitely not considerate of their own flesh and blood or tactful in my opinion. In general, I don't see her "liking" these posts, but that is just a generalization. Stuff like that makes me dislike social media.