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I think I've earned a dram or two of Laphroaig tonight
Well now I'm going to have to throw in. I'm a scotch man myself. On the Isle of Islay, you will find the scotch drinker's scotch. It's no place to start, but you will eventually graduate to there. Now on the Isle, there are three characteristically peaty, smoky libations. When I go to the garden center and pass the peat moss, I waft it and think Islay. I mean no offense Kieran -- if you like Laphroig, drink Laphroig, but I find (and maybe it's just me) Laphroig to be the least of the three. Move on to Lagavulin, it makes Laphroig taste like kerosene. And then there's Bowmore. I have a 26 year old Bowmore that is the epitome of Islay.

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Oh my goodness. This is possibly the best and most concise thread on here. I am defo watching this as it unfolds.

Kieron you're doing a good job.


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I know! Kieran - your sitch is like the 'Reduced Shakespeare Company' compared to our 'Full Works of Shakespeare' sitches! Many of us learn DBing over a period of time - but you're having a crash course from some of the wisest people on this site.

There's a lot to take on board, and you're doing really well my friend......:-)


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Originally Posted By: Toots
your sitch is like the 'Reduced Shakespeare Company' compared to our 'Full Works of Shakespeare' sitches! Many of us learn DBing over a period of time

DB'ing takes TIME.

Remember its a GIFT.

Have no EXPECTATIONS cause that can be a big fall.


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Feeling slighly hung over but good. One of my friends who was camping also works with W and texted her to ask if something was wrong, because normally we do these kinds of things together (I had only told two friends at that point). Kind of ruined the complete uncertainty of my going dark, but I had a fun time anyways.

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I'm thinking of staying away a second day. Is that overdoing it?

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Kieran,

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I'm thinking of staying away a second day. Is that overdoing it?


Go for it! Do what you need to do...I liked how you responded to W when you stopped over yesterday to get overnight stuff. Gold!

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Originally Posted By: KieranR
I'm thinking of staying away a second day. Is that overdoing it?


Would you be doing it because you're having a good time, or because you're afraid to face her?


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Starsky,

Either reasons does not negate Kieran's need to regain his center. I do think an extra day will do his PMA a world of good. Does it matter?

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Feeling slighly hung over but good. One of my friends who was camping also works with W and texted her to ask if something was wrong, because normally we do these kinds of things together (I had only told two friends at that point). Kind of ruined the complete uncertainty of my going dark, but I had a fun time anyways.


Yeah, be careful what you tell the guys.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
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