Okay, it's bothering me now. How can I rebuild trust if the W intentionally prevents all opportunity to do so? It seems like a catch-22--she can't give the R another chance until she can trust, but I can't earn the trust until given another chance. Maybe I'm stupid and missed something in all this.

And the pattern is definitely recurring...she randomly calls and asks me to take care of our daughter outside the normal schedule, but freaks out when I offer. Just the other day, I was about to leave for work when I get a call about how it's cold and she'd like me to drive D to school. No problem. When I get there, she maintains distance, doesn't really say anything, and instead gets into a sort of staring contest with me. So weird.

Me:31 W:31 D:6
T: 9/2001 M: 1/2009
W unhappy: 6/14
W moves to parents: 10/14
W wants D (angry): 12/14
W okay w/ S: 2/15
W wants D (calm): 2/15
W gets new job/place: 3/15
W admits PA, suggests MC: 8/15