don't do it complex. Your only opening yourself up to more pain. I know because I keep doing it!!! damn n blast.
Just concentrate on you. Do not believe a word she says to you. My wife just lies and speaks the utter most BS I have ever heard just to check i'm still there dancing to her tune. I'm sometimes laughing on the inside about what actually comes out of her mouth.
Get this one. the other day because I hadn't told her something I was doing and then later on proceeded to do so she said word for word "so you're keeping secrets now are you" hahahahahah I nearly fell of my chair I wanted to laugh so hard. I was looking at her in astonishment that she had just actually said this to me. DO NOT BELEIVE A WORD THEY SAY!!
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on