Thanks. He has now filed for divorce. I'm really feeling hurt. I now need support to do my part in practicing divorce busters 180. I was emotionally attached to one of my male friends which has even pushed him to divorce me. I Do understand his hurt and the betrayal of trust. I'm working in improving myself and trying to be strong. I'm no longer friends with that guy because he was to give me sound advice not use my vulnerabilty. I've learned the hard lesson if not trusting the opposite sex friends when it comes to my marriage. Anyone out there has had an emotional affair, wants to save marriage and their technique worked please let me know. Help! I still love him and know our kids deserve this chance.