What if one of the reasons your spouse is leaving you is because he wants kids and you do not. And now it is too late for you to have kids. So DB and GAL will be just for you to move on without your spouse, right? There is no fixing the marriage.
Originally Posted By: Cadet
What about adopting?
After reading what is going on above this post I really wonder what you are getting out of the marriage?
Having kids is not going to magically make him change and quit drugs?
He has got some serious problems and he should be thrilled to have YOU!