Wonka, I started reading Nonviolent Communication: observe, feel, needs, request.

I see you're still in touch with OM. That makes me feel hurt and betrayed. I need my wife to be faithful and true. I ask that you never contact him gain.

Don't know how well that'll go over. But I'm just being facetious. I'll finish reading the book before I start trying to use the wisdom in it.

M: 59 W: 53
M: 9 yrs
T: 14 yrs
No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine)
W moved out 11/18/2013
D-Day 12/14/2013
W moved back home 12/1/2014