I know! Kieran - your sitch is like the 'Reduced Shakespeare Company' compared to our 'Full Works of Shakespeare' sitches! Many of us learn DBing over a period of time - but you're having a crash course from some of the wisest people on this site.

There's a lot to take on board, and you're doing really well my friend......:-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus