You sound like you are doing well. You are smart not to look into what your wife is doing as it does not change things nor will it help you in any way. Keep focusing in on you and your kids.
I to think my wifes head is clearing and she may be getting healthier too. I have to keep reminding myself not to read too much into it. When I keep my eyes clear I can still see things that indicate she has a ways to go and still may never come out of it completely. So, I keep telling myself that I have to stop trying to read her. I have to remind myself that she will have to let me know in some way that she is truely coming out and wants a connection to me again.
Try not to read your wife. Try to focus on you and your kids. We both have a long way to go, but compared to last year, we have both come a long way.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"