its OK to feel like old for a little bit. Its also OK to give ourselves a break, especially when getting over flu. As long as we don't wallow.
And bits not working like they should happens to all people at all ages.
I always get the impression you really push yourself to keep busy and then are hard on yourself about it. I do wonder if your still holding on to your H's criticism too much. Trying and failing is much better than not trying in the first place.
Gg you have nothing to prove, you're great exactly as you want to be
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
