Just been mulling over how things will look in the future.
The farm isn't income size. S17 I supect was doing all the work he could think of in the farm as he expected to be handed stuff on a platter and we know life just ain't like that.
He needs actions on his board, which is a not happening. It's not a never but not now, s17 need some maturity, needs to handle his emtional stuff better. He needs to grow up and experince life. Which IMHO he resents, which is teen thing.
I also get he seems to resent the thought I'm not playing happy family with xh. That's a most definitely a never.
I don't have many, non neg in life, just see where things go to be flexible. Always has been, it was stbxh who wanted concrete plans in 5 year increments!
I thought a month was medium range planing. A whole year db, which the whole horrible mess was burning to the ground by now, exactly a year ago. I did get a present from stbxh, he returned the gift (I gave) with a note, rubbing my face in it.
Mind you, I did thank him for the return re gift! Really nice thanks by text. He then recieved Several other token things which he did not return, they were for things h did. Bet he thought it was better keeping it than returning it and then me thinking he gifted it to me!
Which was the impression created. Nasty flipping h script. I know it was pre db, but I pretty sure h would have said wft?
Last edited by Ggrass; 02/14/1511:50 AM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
