Nothing wrong with looking after yourself same here. I spent so much of the past few years feeling unwanted and uncared for I let myself slump and get into a huuuge rut. Some nights didn't want to see the morning, no more regardless of outcome with w.
I still slump some nights but generally I'm much brighter. I'm not in my 20s either matey but honestly rather not be they weren't great times either and I know myself (steady!!!) far better at this age than I ever did before. Damaged leg, hand, collar bone and yes some wear and tear through misuse (stop giggling the back) and lugging around extra weight.
Very few perfect people out there, me included. Those that point or pick on others imperfections really need to take a deep look at themselves first, ease up on gg, she's fab.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015