May life be;

[edz]

Hey gg

Early night here after a busy day and unexpected bouncy s this evening settled him and I've headed off to bed not far after...

You working today then?

[Ggrass]

Begrudgingly, now it's raining again.

[jim0987]

Hi GG,

just want to pick up on your conversation about friends knowing. you said you think your friends H knew and covered, so your friend may not - you dont know how much your friend and her H talk about this sort of stuff. she may also have felt torn.

If your concerned, ask. but some distance may help regardless why the legal stuff is going on.

I will say this though (and i say it a lot at work) - Never put down to conspiracy things which are as easily explained by incompetence.

[Vanilla]

I'm about to turn 45, I work full time, I try to manage house and farm bits.
Age is irrelevant Gg, V expects to date, run a business and like gg kick ass.

Mostly I fail at farm out side stuff

Gg really!

and I don't really have the energy to be bothered chasing men for casual hook ups.

Agreed, Gg the guys should chase you!

I'm tired I'm old.

From V perspective you are still a young thing!

I have bills and a life to try and manage.

Like every one else on the planet!

Going out every night, um no money no energy.

GAL my sweet Gg does not always involve spending or going out every night.

While essentially I'm loud and out going personality, I do like a quiet solitary home life.

Very important for you. We love our gg just as she is, loud and outgoing

Time for me as yes I've been married and looking after children for close to 20 years.

Now is Gg time for Gg. agreed 1000%

While at home as a ten I was expected to run the house for mum while she worked I cooked 4 nights per week at 13.

That is tough Gg

Darling Gg, such a down on yourself, can you not see what we see? A sassy brave independent woman with an interesting life, doing what she loves, with horses, lambie, errant S17 and a bestie who adores her?

What is so old tired and lacking in that delightful, warm and witty person?

V

[Karma12]

Gg you at not old. You are in your prime. It is your time now. I like you was a parent child taking care of the family from a young age. My kids are now all grown and it was an adjustment to become an empty nester.

Life is too short and it's our time now. Put on those ( sexy ) big girl panties and start GAL. Lol I don't chase men either. It takes time but if you are open eventually you will meet someone you fancy. It took me until now to be open to dating. I just wasn't ready any earlier

[Ggrass]

Let's just say the evidence puts a connection there on a day that it was pretty much a given the ow was hot and heavy. There is very little conspiracy theory. It places them as known to each other. Was I suprised, yes.

Friends hubby makes excuses for one cheating h, by saying he's depressed and that's why. To friends hubby it's simple not a big deal, would it be if his wife cheated, I'm pretty sure so. In fact when rumors went round concerning this h, he jumped up and down and made a huge deal, as they weren't true. It was well known gossip.

I have asked her in a message and yes, no reply. Suprised um no. Tbh, it's not how I expect an innocent person to respond. A dozen other ways but yeah not like that.

A number of things this man says makes me go,mmmmmmmmm just mmmmmmm.
It doesn't stack up, in past dealings and it's doesn't now.

I'm feeling old and tired, stil not over the flue and work was way hard. No distractions the cute dude came in, but as he often does I was in a different area and he wasn't looking my way. So that went down the pan.

All the dinner people have now pulled the pin I'm pretty sure, but meh will try to rustle some thing up. Have interstate bestie visiting, so they might come and have a nice dinner.

I meet plenty of men, every day, stuff just goes nowhere. After asking once and putting myself out there with rhc, meh no more asking.
I was left explaining myself and wants of friendship, I guess he's still hurt and that's more about him than me. Which I wasn't upset about, not at all. I just felt silly trying to explain I wanted only friendship and have someone bolt for the hills.

[edz]

Hi gg

Well you know I've told you before but I'll say it again you're not old and neither am I there's no rush if you're not well you need to rest. Today isn't a day to beat yourself up either, I'm lucky today v day fell on a day I have s (although if I have to tell him to brush his teeth again I'm gonna get the kitchen dish brush and go get him )

Think our ggs batteries are low, what will recharge them? Forum safe answers only

Been bouncing around mopping my floors to 80s and chromeo this morning, new neighbours must love me already lol!

[Ggrass]

H script was I failled at most stuff. Well tryed to do to much and never got started.
Partially true.

It's easy to say that when your not around like h was. Yes, I did spend time promoting stuff via the net, yes it often took awhile to see results, but we all only have so much time. I did take twice as long as h to do manul stuff, but that's being a girl.

Yeah, given how run down I am, I need to just cruise. Hard not to see the wasted time. Anywho, I could do more, but often other things come first like clean clothes, like food for my work week so I can have healthy food.

I feel less like I'm 20 these days. Bits don't work like they should, more because of injury and being so over weight, than old age, but all factors count. Having a man for a son or almost a man, shows how you don't see these things ticking past. It's a creeping thing.

Our family live a long time, typically 90. I feel IMHO we don't look to age much. Which is nice.

I think the being older is more about accepting things aren't like my 20-30's I simpley cannot do what I used to. I don't care too much about the number but the doing is a bit meh.

I want to be like some of my mentors still having active farm life and horse life into my very late years. 80-90-100! Hence the diet thing, hence the looking after health.

[edz]

Nothing wrong with looking after yourself same here. I spent so much of the past few years feeling unwanted and uncared for I let myself slump and get into a huuuge rut. Some nights didn't want to see the morning, no more regardless of outcome with w.

I still slump some nights but generally I'm much brighter. I'm not in my 20s either matey but honestly rather not be they weren't great times either and I know myself (steady!!!) far better at this age than I ever did before. Damaged leg, hand, collar bone and yes some wear and tear through misuse (stop giggling the back) and lugging around extra weight.

Very few perfect people out there, me included. Those that point or pick on others imperfections really need to take a deep look at themselves first, ease up on gg, she's fab.

[Ggrass]

Just been mulling over how things will look in the future.

The farm isn't income size. S17 I supect was doing all the work he could think of in the farm as he expected to be handed stuff on a platter and we know life just ain't like that.

He needs actions on his board, which is a not happening. It's not a never but not now, s17 need some maturity, needs to handle his emtional stuff better. He needs to grow up and experince life. Which IMHO he resents, which is teen thing.

I also get he seems to resent the thought I'm not playing happy family with xh. That's a most definitely a never.

I don't have many, non neg in life, just see where things go to be flexible. Always has been, it was stbxh who wanted concrete plans in 5 year increments!

I thought a month was medium range planing. A whole year db, which the whole horrible mess was burning to the ground by now, exactly a year ago. I did get a present from stbxh, he returned the gift (I gave) with a note, rubbing my face in it.

Mind you, I did thank him for the return re gift! Really nice thanks by text.
He then recieved Several other token things which he did not return, they were for things h did.
Bet he thought it was better keeping it than returning it and then me thinking he gifted it to me!

Which was the impression created. Nasty flipping h script.
I know it was pre db, but I pretty sure h would have said wft?