W still having PA with OP

[Ontheup]

Hey 4

I know it's a tough read but informative. You see the other side and how they are/aren't thinking about anything else.
From what I've gleamed my wife is also undecided about what to do. She continues the affair obviously but is struggling with the fact I won't be here and how d8 will be. No doubt why she is still being best friends with me as she'll want that to continue even when I leave.
From my wife's side not a single person knows. They would be distraught if they found out. They are also religious and put my wife on a pedi stool. I won't be telling them is not my place to do so. My family know and are very very shocked and upset.
Another site advocates basically dropping a nuclear bomb to stop the affair dead. Shine a big torch on it. I won't be doing this. Seems very extreme and have heard of people committing suicide when found out.

Yes get legal advice just so you know where you stand. It's awful but has to be done