Well, I just want to wish all of my lovely DB friends a happy Valentines Day. We may not be in the sitch we hoped for, but hopefully we can have the best day possible.

Someone (thank you!) posted that the sun will rise on Feb 15th and we shall all still be here, which helped me. Valentines Day may magnify our feelings, but it too shall pass and we shall move forwards.

For me, I'm volunteering this morning, and then going to a lingerie/swimwear factory outlet for a spot of shopping before calling in on M&D and a friend who's visiting them. Plan to keep pretty busy today and not 'dwell.' Show myself some self-love. Don't plan to contact H or SS. Will send H a message for his b'day in a week or so.

Have the nicest day possible for yourselves everyone! xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus