Anybody can answer this, but Betsey, if you're around... Can you remember good times from your marriage? Times when things worked really well?

I'm remembering almost all bad times. When I look back I just see a forest of red flags, and I feel kind of stupid for having been so committed to Mr. Fantastic.

And also I feel guilty for my kids. Because of all the men in all the world and I picked THIS guy to be their dad?

Not feeling down, per se, but wondering if I will pick someone better and be more successful if I ever love again. Also wondering IF I will ever love again. Or if anyone will find me lovable.

Thanks.

Last edited by Maybell; 02/14/15 04:49 AM.
Me42, H40
D12, S8, S7
A revealed: 7/13
Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15

She believed she could, so she did.