One more thing: when we talked 2-3 weeks ago she told me "I'm not meeting OM outside of work, he even doesn't talk to me anymore, avoiding me at work (..) he's immature when it comes to relationships, way more than you"

Why the F did she tell me this?
It's been a while so no idea what the deal is right now. But what ev's. I'll do my thing. There's for sure still some confusion going on in W's head. Situation is way to crazy for that not to be the case.
She should get IC too, wouldn't hurt her.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15