Thanks Job.
Yes, I've just had no communication with him for over a week. That's probably the longest we've ever gone. I'm determined to just stay away and not talk to him .
Well today he called and I let it go to VM. Left a very nice mesh starting with good morning ending in have a great day. I waited a few hours and answered via text. It was about kids.
Then late this afternoon he called again when he new I'd be off work. Again to VM said he forfogt to tell me some other stuff like bringing the truck over after getting a new tire and bring wood if needed.
Ha. Funny how after NC again with the wanting to do things for me. I just texted back politely we are good and no thanks for the wood.
I feel so empowered and good. Took a year but finally I'm okay without him.
oh I'm sure now that I have decided finally let it go and be without him he won't be able to handle it. I will not give in this time he knows that I will start talking to him if he calls and is nice. Not this time.

Last edited by NotAgainPlease; 02/14/15 03:29 AM.

M15 T19
D13 S13
BD Affair 9/13
S 11/13
D started 6/14.. dropped court date 10/14 H attorney can't get it together.
Still with long distance ow. Still hates me.