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I feel your back pain. Literally. Swimming is a great exercise though. Good luck. Sorry about the summons, that [censored], but it doesn't mean anything has to change unless you want it to change!

As for grieving, the grieving process isn't linear. Meaning you aren't going to progress from one stage to another. With grief, you bounce through all the stages randomly (or as your life, your mind dictates).

Keep your chin up!


Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2
M - 8/2008
W is not happy - 1/2014
W wants D - 9/2014
W moved out - 11/2014
D filed - 1/23/2015
D'ed - 2/25/2015
Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015