Thank you all for chiming in on my thread. I appreciate your advice and sharing your experiences with me.
Karma, I think I was reading your posts on detachment when you posted the recommendation for me to read them. They cleared up some confusion I had about detachment. Your timing was perfect!
Jbird
M 53 W 44 D25 D20 S22 PA 10/95 BD abt 2k EA BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05 DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005 XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005 Remarried 12/28/07 BD 12/18/14 Sep living together