Does that seem in line with "leave me alone" and live your own life?
I think it would be a good idea for you to answer 25's questions as well. For example,
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How did you break her heart? THAT is the type of information we need to best advise you. Otherwise we are in the dark about what the "real" problems are, to HER.
Keep in mind this is her perception of the "problem".
The other thing to understand - DB is about healing you more than anything. If the marriage is saved during that process, so much the better. What are you changing about you that YOU feel needs changing?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
