W still having PA with OP

[4mendmj]

That was hard to read. Very hard to read. Very.

But it explains a lot. Many of what I read there directly applies to what I have seen in the last year unfortunately but there is validation in that too.

When W's father came out 2 months ago, it was the only time in the last year W came very close to coming back to the marriage. Not because of the intervention but because of the disaproval. As soon as she got comforted from the dad that he would love her no matter what (she told him it was all about me and had nothing to do with OW) she was back to home free and has had zero contact with father since then. Makes sense now. Plus, just now thinking about it from the other side too, the OW's parents having no clue, may be some pressure there. I will have to consult with my lawyer first because if it goes south, I have to keep that angle covered as well but would love to speak to the OW's parents. They are ultra-religious and althoug they love their D, they would flip/freak at how she is tearing another family apart.