wife during deployment EA/PA Part 3

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I agree with twin. I see absolutely no reason to inform W. She is the one who left you. She has no say in what you do right now. And she doesn't need to be notified. Your W has fired you as her H. If a boss fired you from your job, would you feel you needed to keep him updated on what you're doing at your NEW job? I mean, would you CARE if your new actions at your new job pissed your old boss off?

See what I mean?

She's calling the shots for HER life. You're calling the shots for YOURS.

Simple as that.