Valentine's day does not just mean romantic love. Buy a few single roses and pass them out at an old folks home and you will make it a great day for you and a few lonely older people.
Job and Cadet posted a great detachment thread on the MLC forum. It is at the top of the first page and well worth reading
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.