That's the best thing to do. Why cause yourself more pain. Families are there to give support when you need them. I was the shoulder for my brother when he went through his divorce. Now I am a frequent visitor to their home lol
Me 52 H 44 T9 M 5 BD 12/11 H split 8/12 OW moved in 12/12 OW gone for good 6/14 We get closer again 9/14 SD 13 Me 4 Grown
Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.