Well, H never responded to that email. Go figure. But when I start getting a case of the "WHY??"s, telling myself "he couldn't even answer a direct question from you as to why - he doesn't even know" is somehow helpful. His reasons were full of contradictions, anyway.
I was really excited about going to get a new phone today (mine is 2 years old and I made the mistake of picking the cheapest phone at the time)... long story short, it doesn't make sense for me to get a new phone until we switch our phone plan from a family plan to 2 single ones. Which means H and I have to go to the store together to set that up. Which means no new phone until we arrange that. Grrrr. I sent him an email explaining this and that I absolutely want to have a new phone before the end of March (I'm going on a trip and want to be able to take good pictures), and gave him dates I am not free and that any other date I'd be free. I thought about suggesting "maybe you should research ahead of time what you plan you want" so it goes quickly, but not my business - he's a grown man in theory and should be able to figure that out. This and then the final court date are probably the last two times we'll actually have to meet together in-person.
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final