Jim0987 #12 - testing out Mk8's new features

[jim0987]

Not sure if i've done the right thing, though i think its just i'm worried unnecessarily

i mentioned about the postal redirection thing that my wife put in place. she said she would fix it but as a precaution i contacted royal mail and said that if she doesnt then i would like to dispute it. I havent chased her on this at all.

well today i recieved a letter from Royal mail saying there is a formal dispute over this and what there process is. my wife will have recieved a similar letter.

if she does what she agreed to the problem goes away, but somehow i'm pretty she wont take this well. hardly making her feel less negative about me.

still its not like she is able to be friendly toward me so i suppose it doesnt make much difference.

If youre wondering why i'm bothered about this, its because for me there were always two big things for in this whole process
1) i wasnt going to be salami sliced on the financials
2) I wont accept or tolerate anything that suggests i'm somehow a secondary parent

To me stopping the kids recieving mail at my house interferred with second of those.

I suppose i'm just looking for either reassurance or a 2x4 as to whether i did the right thing by not trusting her to do it.