really glad you're ok, but as others have said dont leave it so long in future
sounds like you had a good chance to get your thoughts straight and really take stock of the good and the bad. I hope that your feeling as postive about you as you sound.
looks like an interesting book
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress