She confirmed it had started out as an EA when we were both burning the candle at both ends during our academic programs, but it has now progressed to a PA.
But she did not promise to end the A. And we left it at that for the night. I checked her phone this morning and she'd definitely been texting with OM after I was asleep, though she'd clearly erased the bulk of the messages.
Today I was friendly, got her a coffee, talked a bit about work and then left. Tonight I'm going to head out for a run and then maybe meet up with some friends for a beer later.
I also am more than a little surprised by this. A couple of pages ago you thought she was only in an EA and wouldn't leave you because he lived so far away. Now she drops the PA bomb and you get her coffee?????!!!!
She's sleeping with another man.
And you get her coffee.
I'd have packed her chit.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.