Hi, friends Last night was pretty quiet - H came home relatively early (10:30pm), ostensibly so we could talk, but we ended up just hanging out. I finally hopped back up on the Flylady bandwagon, so the living room was at least somewhat comfortable. He came home and spent a little time on the computer while I finished picking up. We talked, chitchatty stuff, nothing heavy. We talked a little about the car, but nothing intensive. As I understand it, his partner bought the car,and if my darling husband can't come up with the money for this car, his partner is free to sell it out from under him. Not a deal I would want to make, but at least he hasn't tied up four months worth of our income in a car that doesn't run.
Anyway, an important distinction to note here is that there is a fine line between validation and support. I needed to be more clear about not thinking that this car was a good idea, while still supporting my husband's right to make the final decision for himself. AURGH! Could this be any more confusing?
Anyway, I'm just going to keep swimming, because that's all I can do. Hugs, Myrrh
One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.
