Yes. It's a DECISION to cheat and to lie. Maybe one altered by circumstances, or the damn devil himself. We lose who we really are getting sukked up in a journey of emotions.

Point to consider is that WAS's checked out of the marriage, so in their head it only exists on paper (W's words), which eventually leads to validation that the "A" is ok. Bc M is over anyway. And I don't even know..it's partially true, but just disrrspectful and selfish on the highest level,...I guess no matter of the circumstances, it always is.
I guess it's also one thing: human frown

Last edited by Complex; 02/13/15 08:09 PM.

Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15