She *is* testing you. As she's been all along with this other relationship. Last nite was your first step in beginning to re-balance the power equilibrium, Kieran -- be patient. This is going to take awhile, and a LOT of work.
If she does try to call you or text you, do NOT answer or respond right away. Wait a couple of hours, or -- better -- come here first and let us know what kind of message she sent you.
She's either trying to make you sweat (as BACKWARDS as that sounds!) or she's texting and calling OM like crazy to try to get their stories straight. Either way, while you may need soothing you do NOT go to your wayward wife for that!!! . . . right?
