Interesting - reading this content about lying. When my H told me about his PA, he said - in a very impassioned way - that the lying and deception was the 'worst thing that had ever happened to him.'

It only really occured to me just now that lying and deception doesn't 'happen to you.' You do it yourself......

And I get the comment about people not being themselves. My H always valued fidelity so highly and was so honest. I would never have dreamed this would happen.


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus