Ontheup...powerful words sir. I have literally told W before (months ago) that she was addicted. I didn't realize until coming here how truly correct that assumption was. Frankly, it scares me but it also makes me wonder if looking at them differently can help...sometimes I see people here reference as almost feeling sorry for the person for their own sake.

Something I don't know if I have written about the sitch before but a little more background. The OW (wich is also in a relationship with a man) and all 3 of them (W, OW and OM) are all aware of each other and all spend most all of their time with each other etc.... (which is messed up to me) the OW...the parents of the OW have zero clue that the OW is even doing this to marriages and think their daughter walks on water loving a quad. I have always wanted to go talk to the OW's parents and let them know what a destructive life their D is living. Thoughts? Why do it? The OW has no skin in the game...no consequences...just keeps messing with other people's marriages while getting everything they want out of people. As soon as it turns serious, the OW has (so far) always kicked the person to the curb and picked up a new one instead (W being #3). Thoughts on putting some of OW's skin in the game?


Me:39 W:33
Married 6/07
D6
Found out about affair 9/14