Originally Posted By: Starsky309
Originally Posted By: Complex
W btw told me a bit ago "you'll never trust me when I go out, I don't know what to do, so I guess I just let you assume".
Sounds super scripty to me. If I trust her is up to me she said.
I just told her it's not about trust, more about respect, trust is followed by respect.



A better answer would have been "Trust is earned. When your actions begin to line up with your words, consistently over time, then maybe I can trust you again. Right now, I'm afraid I don't, based on how you've lied to me."


I'll use this line or similar next time. Thanks, sounds much better.
Thanks Starsky! You always got great situational advice.

I guess I should wait for the right situation before I throw this line out ...

Last edited by Complex; 02/13/15 07:30 PM.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15