Complex, I would suggest to you that you -- once again -- take a deep breath, and realize that there's an ENTIRE GULF of positions and attitudes that you can take in between "Screw this!" and "I trust her completely -- that wouldn't be her style."
The truth is always somewhere in the middle. Thing about truth itself is it's ultimate. And my position on things obviously is going off with my emotions, up and down, but I think I'm moving within heatlhy and mature boundaries at least.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15