W btw told me a bit ago "you'll never trust me when I go out, I don't know what to do, so I guess I just let you assume". Sounds super scripty to me. If I trust her is up to me she said. I just told her it's not about trust, more about respect, trust is followed by respect.
A better answer would have been "Trust is earned. When your actions begin to line up with your words, consistently over time, then maybe I can trust you again. Right now, I'm afraid I don't, based on how you've lied to me."
