Thank you Sandi. I agree that I need to move forward knowing my options and not caring about what I think it represents.
It's now lunch hour and i just saw W post a pic on FB of a big bouquet of flowers sent to her work saying from a secret admirer and she was feeling loved. I am going to unfriend her as I don't need to see that. Just another way I keep letting myself get hurt by her.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time