Thank you Sandi. I agree that I need to move forward knowing my options and not caring about what I think it represents.

It's now lunch hour and i just saw W post a pic on FB of a big bouquet of flowers sent to her work saying from a secret admirer and she was feeling loved. I am going to unfriend her as I don't need to see that. Just another way I keep letting myself get hurt by her.


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time