W btw told me a bit ago "you'll never trust me when I go out, I don't know what to do, so I guess I just let you assume".
Sounds super scripty to me. If I trust her is up to me she said.
I just told her it's not about trust, more about respect, trust is followed by respect.

I don't even know if this conversation with her makes any sense at all!?

Wonder what her definition of respect is tho.

OK ok I have to let it go for today. Feeling better letting it all out here.


Me 32 (German) Wife 28
T 3yrs M 2yrs
Moved to US for W
No kids
BD 6/2014
In house separation
Confirmed EA 1/2015
(ongoing since BD)
OM not ready
Real D talk started 1/27/15