Complex, I would suggest to you that you -- once again -- take a deep breath, and realize that there's an ENTIRE GULF of positions and attitudes that you can take in between "Screw this!" and "I trust her completely -- that wouldn't be her style."

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)