Complex #4 - D talk started / Detaching continues

[Complex]

I was just gonna ask if I should just let it go. My parents keep nagging me "how can you still live together while everyone is doing his own thing, there's needs to be a decision, yes or no, there's no such thing as NC in a marriage, you have to talk to her".
They are old fashioned, and I really understand where they are coming from. It's a good thing. People with tradition have a strong attitude. It's on or it's off, but as we all know not everything is black and white. But they stand for their values, which is a good thing.
My mentor aways says: you surround yourself with mediocre people, you become mediocre.

GAL for today: popping my next Prozac (scared), car inspection, making work phone calls, then tonight I need sth to do - gotta ask friends to go out with me bc I can't stay home with W, no way. Maybe I'll go surfing later too