Hi Naj, thanks for asking. I'm doing ok thanks. But I have very little contact with H, which is relaxing in a way - but brings different issues of course. I just keep trotting along here - building up GAL plans and my new life. No talk of D for us - but H is pretty conflict avoidant and may struggle to 'go there' - who knows..

For now, I'd like to get our finances separated and get some more monetary security for me, without filing for D. So we'll see how that goes. In the meantime I'm moving forward, but the window is still open a chink if H cares to look in.

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus