Complex #4 - D talk started / Detaching continues

[Complex]

I should listen to the vets. But putting the pieces together it could be either way.
Schedule doesn't allow that they even see much. Only time possible is like once a week when she meets "friends for dinner" which usually never lasts longer than 3-4h including driving. Not her style to go for a quickie and come back. Plus I know some of them and they know me, so I could easily ask someone which would make it very risky for her.
New underwear still has the tags on^^
Plus: I know for a fact OM didn't make any moves on her (at least at the time whee I snooped), even turned down dinner invitations from her.
But like I said, if it is a PA, so be it, bc it'll proof that it's pretty infatuated.
Either way I should assume it's there and act accordingly. If it's not its ok too.

If she is really that perfectly sneaky, I'll pull my hat (been there done that myself) but also most likely pull the cord of my parachute and get the hell out of this M knowing I definitely married the wrong person.