July '14- H admits to a PA since Mar'14. I moved out. OW lives abroad with on/off R.
July - Sep '14 - We talk a lot H is lost, confused, loves me, 'feelings for OW'. No talk of D
Oct '14 - I 'drop the rope' - stop initiating convos. Hear from a friend that H says our R is over & he knows he wants a 'family' in his future. R with OW is 'rocky'
Nov & Dec '14- Occasional text contact with H. No talks. He sent me an Xmas present and card, plus HNY text.
Jan '15 - Phone call with H to discuss rabbit rehoming. No R talk. H seems self absorbed/stressed. Away for weekend alone to 'think about his life' - warm, pleasant convo.
Feb '15 - Instructed a L - about to focus on financials (H doesn't know yet). A is continuing as far as I know - but haven't asked lately.
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T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
